What is Monogamy?

An interesting question was posed to me recently. What is monogamy? When I heard this question I knew what my answer would be, but within only a few moments I thought about my friends. More specifically how many of their relationships would not fit within my definition of monogamy but they consider it monogamy. Friends…

When life gets too much!

I have been MIA for a while now, which has sucked but been for a good reason. I have recently moved to a new apartment ON MY OWN, I have had numerous job interviews, finished my internship. Plus I had my parents come to town and meet a significant other of mine, which happened to…

Date night reimagined

Date night is a staple in a relationship! Though the problem with saying its a “Date night” is that there is the assumption that it has to be big and grand! Though in reality, a date night can be a night in with Netflix or a small subway dinner. This is especially true for broke students who…

Hiding

You can hide from an ex, a parent, a teacher, but your brain not so much. You can’t move rooms to avoid an awkward conversation with yourself. So what do you do? Some people drink, or smoke, or sleep, or workout, or anything distracting honestly. We all hide because we don’t want to face the reality…

The Sex Talk

Before you even start to think this is going to be about teaching someone the “birds and the Bee’s” I am just going to let you know from the start that’s not right! I’m talking about the sex talk most couples have at some point! Sometimes the sex talk includes a detailed history of your sexual…

Love Changes Us

Love, it’s a tricky thing. Every love is different, and no one wants the same thing in love. Though the one thing I am certain about with every love is that we give a bit of our self to the person and they give a bit of themselves. Through the laughs and the stories, the…

The First-Time Syndrome

Imagine the first time someone told you that you looked nice, the first time someone did something romantic for you, the first time someone said I love you! Does it stick out more in your head than the next person who did? I personally find that it does, meaning that if someone does something really…

Winter Boyfriend?

So I have learned that having a “winter boyfriend” is actually a thing some women look for… its a humorous yet slightly a dangerous thought. If you go into something with the thoughts of it only lasting the winter, it almost seems like using someone. Mostly because if you label it with the season, you…

What is it about “that kiss”

A kiss with the right person can be an addicting experience, one that always leaves you wanting more. The passion from it can make you breathless, the intimacy can make you feel warm and safe, and no matter how many times you kiss them it never seems to be enough. With the right person you…

Christmas Wishes

I think that Christmas is an ever-evolving holiday where each year’s always different, and you have to make the best of any situation that presents itself. Even if that means being away from your family, or having new additions to your household, or a change in traditions. The day is meant to be with others,…